An honest and shame-free approach to developing serious, assertive, workers in your classroom. It’s affordable, easy to use, and it works!

Our consultants will :

  • In 1-2 hours, coach your staff, students, and parents on the Tools Not Rules philosophy.

  • Supply classroom posters on the 9-behavior words:

    stuck, serious, silly

    passive, assertive, aggressive

    shirking, working, showboating

  • Provide slides for the roll out of the language to students.

  • Offer Tools Not Rulesbook to support staff learning (Solution Tree Press, January, 2025). Pre-order here!

 

TNR is a story about connection and seeing ALL students not ‘at-risk’ but ‘at-promise’.

ABOUT THE PROGRAM

Tools Not Rules is an approach to working with students that allows true transformation by using common language, creating shame-free interactions, and coaching towards serious, assertive, working.  Tools Not Rules increases student engagement and achievement, while decreasing teacher stress. 

Tools Not Rules™ IS…

  • A pledge to your students that you will help them grow - emotionally, socially, and academically.

  • A connection strategy that builds trust, honesty, and space to make different choices.

  • A pathway that creates change for both the teacher and the student.

 

PROGRAM IMPACT

Why We Do THIS WORK:

  • To increase student success and engagement in school. 

  • To engage in self-assessment and self-regulation. 

  • To help us all become serious, assertive workers. 

  • To offer a different paradigm for classroom systems.

  • IT WORKS! 

Tools Not Rules is an approach that can set students free from behaviors that get in the way of being productive. 

 

HOW TO IMPLEMENT IN YOUR CLASSROOM

The Tools Not Rules is easy to implement. 

Our training sessions include:

  • instruction in the philosophy behind Tools Not Rules

  • a set of posters

  • Tools Not Rules book (Solution Tree, Inc, January 2025)

We are excited to put Tools Not Rules into action, making a difference for your students’ happiness and yours. 

 
  • “Tools Not Rules™ helps students self-propel. It helps teachers create real connections with students.”

    -High School Administrator

  • “TNR gives me somewhere to go when things are not working out. I had it in my heart, but didn’t have the language.”

    -Middle School Student

  • “I work harder because it's more advanced words. When I’m not in that class I’m not working as hard. The words are not there, they (other teachers) just tell you to be quiet.”

    -Middle School Student

Contact

We believe this language helps transform kids’ lives and the lives of adults. We would love to work with you in small groups, schools or districts! We look forward to hearing from you.

EMAIL US

Marlene Moyer, MAT
marlene@toolsnotrules.com

Claudia Bertolone-Smith, PhD
claudia@toolsnotrules.com